To love and to hold,what is this idea what is the notion? To love is attachment forming, to love another being is to be attached to them to be sewn to them or tethered to their very existence.
What is it when the thread is strung but the energy is not the same on both sides?
What is it to be sewn to another, but for the other to not be sewn? Attachment leads to ownership, and ownership to jealousy leading. Trouble is when the attachment leads to such love that it compels a being to have their entire loved one only for self in every waking moment to no compromise of other existences.