The most splendid lover you can have is yourself. Once you really spend time with and become a lover of you own self, you will realize how much there is to the world that you haven’t seen. Your own fears, your own insecurities are blinding to many things because of your focus on only those negative things. There is however much indeed to be seen. You would only be surprised on how much there is to be seen of great positivity outside of the dark cloud covering your heart. Smile for a while, and give yourself relief. Give cause to smile to another.